Swingers in Israel

What are swingers?

The word swingers describes couples who bring additional people into their sex life, together and with the consent of both partners. Swingers are not looking for a new relationship and do not hide anything from each other: the relationship stays at the center, and encounters with others are a shared experience that the couple chooses together.

The swingers world also has room for singles. Single women who join a couple, and single men whom couples invite to an encounter, are a natural part of the community. What they all have in common is the principle on which the swinging world is built: every step is taken freely, with respect and within boundaries set in advance.

The terms swingers, swinging and couple swapping are usually used to mean the same thing. Swinging is the name of the lifestyle itself, a swinger is someone who takes part in it, and couple swapping is the familiar Hebrew expression.

Types of encounters among swingers

There is no single way to be swingers. Each couple chooses the style that suits them, and sometimes that style changes with time and experience:

• Soft swap: kissing, caressing and touching, without full sex with the other partners. A common starting point for couples who are just beginning.
• Full swap: each partner has full sex with the other couple's partner.
• Same room or separate rooms: some couples want to be side by side, while others prefer privacy.
• Mutual watching: two couples who enjoy watching each other, without touching.
• Threesome: a couple and a woman, or a couple and a man. This is one of the most common fantasies among swingers in Israel.

Who are the swingers in Israel?

Swingers in Israel come from every community and every age group: young couples who have only just started talking about it, couples married for many years who are looking for renewal, women who have discovered the world of threesomes and single men looking for a trustworthy couple. Thousands of profiles of swinger couples, women and men from all over the country are registered on Swinging.

Alongside the general audience, the site has distinctive groups, such as religious and traditional couples, Russian-speaking couples and Arabic-speaking couples. Many of them enter the swingers world with no previous experience, which is why the site also has a page for couples and singles without experience.

Why do couples choose the swinging world?

The reasons differ from couple to couple, but some come up again and again. Some couples want to bring excitement and passion back into a long relationship, and others want to fulfill together a fantasy they have talked about for years. Others say that the honest conversations about desires and boundaries brought them closer than anything else.

What separates swingers from cheating is transparency: both partners know, agree and take part. The couples who do well as swingers usually have good communication, mutual trust and the ability to talk openly about jealousy, too, when it appears. If you feel that your relationship is not stable, it is better to wait before taking this step.

How do you meet swingers on the site?

1. Register for free and choose who you are: a couple, a woman or a man.
2. Fill in your profile with a few words about yourselves and what you are looking for. A complete profile receives more messages.
3. Upload photos and choose for each photo whether it is public or private. A private photo is shown only to people you have approved.
4. Search for swingers by area, age and profile type, or visit Available Today to see who is free to meet today.
5. Chat, get to know each other, and arrange to meet only when you feel comfortable.

Photos and texts that members upload are reviewed by the site team before they are published.

How do you write a profile that gets replies?

A good profile is your business card. Write honestly who you are, what you enjoy and whom you would be glad to meet, and give readers a sense of the people behind the photos. A clear photo, even without a face, and a description of a few lines attract far more messages than an empty profile. It is worth mentioning your area and the kind of encounter that interests you, so that the swingers who contact you are the ones who truly suit you.

A first meeting: some recommendations

The first meeting with a couple or a person you met on the site is an exciting moment, and sometimes a nerve-racking one. A few recommendations that members repeat:

• Meet in a public place, such as a café or a bar, and do not commit in advance to anything further.
• Agree between yourselves beforehand on a signal that means "let's continue" or "let's end it here", and stick to it.
• Talk openly about expectations, experience and boundaries. A good conversation is the best sign of a good match.
• Stay clear-headed: one drink helps you relax, more than that clouds your judgment.
• After the meeting, decide together, at home, whether you want to meet again. There is no obligation to continue.

Swingers parties

Swingers parties are gatherings of several couples and singles in an open atmosphere, usually in a private home, a villa or a club. Some parties have a dress code, some begin with a get-to-know-you evening, and at all of them the rule is the same: no one has to do anything they do not want to do.

Many couples prefer to get to know one or two swinger couples first and only then go to a party. You will find more information on the swinger parties page and in the guide what really happens at parties and how to behave.

Etiquette in the swingers world

• Full consent: both partners want the encounter, and each of them can stop at any moment.
• Clear boundaries: you talk in advance about what is allowed and what is not, and everyone respects the boundaries of others.
• "No" is an answer: a refusal is accepted politely, without pressure and without asking again.
• Safer sex: condoms and regular testing are part of the routine of responsible swingers.
• Discretion: what happens at an encounter stays there. No photos without permission and no sharing of details.

Discretion, privacy and profile verification

The privacy of our members comes first. You do not have to reveal a photo with your face: you can keep photos private and open them only to the people you choose. Your phone number and email address are never shown to anyone.

So that you know who you are talking to, you can verify your profile with the site team. A verified profile is marked, and every member can choose to receive messages only from verified profiles. This keeps the swingers community trustworthy, without fake profiles. A profile that behaves inappropriately can be blocked and reported with one click. More on this in the guide discretion and safety.

How do you get started?

The first step is an open conversation between the two of you: what intrigues you, what worries you and what each of your boundaries are. It is best to start slowly, with an introductory meeting at a café, without any commitment. Many couples discover that getting to know each other, the conversation and the anticipation are an essential part of the experience.

For those who want to learn more before the first step, we have written guides: what couple swapping is, the beginner's guide, a threesome with a couple and what cuckolding is. In the end, the best way to understand the world of swingers is to meet real swingers.